With the Mayor and Mayor Pro-Tem having left the room, Ypsi City Council votes unanimously to pursue a formal investigation into their recent trip to China

At tonight’s Ypsilanti City Council meeting, as you might imagine, people were anxious to discuss the most recent scandal swirling around the International Village development. Unfortunately, those in the best position to comment didn’t seem to want to talk about it. Mayor Amanda Edmonds, who just last night returned from 10-day trip to China, which may or may not have been paid for by the developer of the International Village project, in violation of City ethics rules, said that, while she gleaned “invaluable” insights on the trip, she was just too tired to go into much detail at the moment. Edmonds, also said that, City Economic Development Director Beth Ernat would be better suited to speak about the sequence of events leading up to the trip anyway, as “she has the most information.” Unfortunately, Edmonds said, Ernat won’t be back in town until later this week, as she’s still making her way back to Ypsilanti. Mayor Pro-Tem Nicole Brown, who accompanied Edmonds and Ernat on the trip in question, said that she couldn’t comment about the trip, and how it was funded, because we’re now in an “investigation stage,” alluding to the fact that City Attorney John Barr had just recently retained a private detective to determine where the funding for the trip originated, and whether or not the four individuals who took the trip knew in advance that their travel expenses weren’t really being paid by a Wayne State student group, as the public had been led to believe.

For those of you who are unfamiliar with what’s transpired thus far, it looks as though, after being told by the City Attorney that they couldn’t pay for members of our City government to visit China, the developer behind the proposed International Village project sought to funnel money through a Chinese student organization at Wayne State University, in hopes of skirting City ethics rules. While it’s unclear at this point whether the four people who took the trip knew this to be the case before leaving, some clearly believe that’s what happened. Councilwoman Beth Bashert, for instance, said later in the meeting, after Edmonds and Brown had left the room, “The folks who went to China knew more about the funding than Council did when they took the trip.” Ypsilanti City Manager Darwin McClary, a few minutes later, asked Bashert to clarify, as evidence of their complicity has yet to be established, and she then backtracked, saying that her comments had been based on hearsay. Clearly, though, she has reason to believe this to be the case… She then added, “If true, it’s extremely disturbing.”

While Edmonds said the she wouldn’t be talking about the trip, or what she might have known about the source of the funds, again mentioning how tired she was after two days of travel, she did say that Ernat was preparing an executive summary, which would be shared with the public. She also mentioned that, during the course of their travels, she and other members of the delegation were taken to an area of Shanghai where they were shown the developer’s inspiration for the proposed Ypsilanti development. In this Chinese development, Edmonds told us, there were very small, affordable apartments, which she likened to the demo apartments one might encounter in an Ikea… the implication being that the International Village development, contrary to popular belief, would contain an affordable housing component, addressing the concerns of those who believe the up-scale development would force local rental rates beyond the reach of current residents. As someone in the audience pointed out during the community input portion of the meeting, however, this runs contrary to what we were told in late September by the developer’s own representative, who told us that the smallest units would be approximately 800 square feet and rent for about $1,200 per month.

The community input portion of the agenda, as you might imagine, given this recent news concerning the source of the funding, and the appearance of impropriety, was lively. One after another, citizens lined up to talk about the “dubious nature of the funding of the trip” and accuse their members of Council of being “a bunch of buttered-up politicians,” who lacked the “courage” to stand up to a developer promising to invest $300 million in downtown Ypsilanti. Members of City Council were, in turn, accused of being naive, taking bribes, and being incompetent. Lee Tooson, after asking how it is that, after ten days in China they still don’t have answers for their constituents about what they knew and when they knew it, said, “Y’all sell’n Ypsilanti out for a trip to China.” He then went on to say that their silence was reminiscent of a corrupt police department, where officers are instructed to keep quiet until they can all get their stories straight, hiding behind the excuse that they can’t comment on an ongoing investigation.

I could share pages of quotes, a lot of which were really entertaining, but, when you boil it all down, you’re left with a few clear messages. First, people feel as though this entire process played out in secret, with Council not only not soliciting public input, but actively fighting against it, by attempting to shut down forums and discredit community members who raised concerns, accusing them of being emotional, unrealistic, and even xenophobic. Second, it would seem people really don’t like the idea that the developer, perhaps with the knowledge of certain members of Council, sought to skirt ethics rules by funneling money through a third party. And, third, people are clearly hungry for a meaningful, substantive conversation about gentrification and how we as a community stay true to our shared values in the face of growth, which we can all see looming on the horizon, regardless of whether or not the International Village deal goes through. People, in short, want a seat at the table, and they expect honesty and transparency from their elected leaders, which they don’t feel as though they’re getting right now.

But, yeah, there were a lot of calls for our elected representatives to resign, as well as some very specific criticisms directed at individual members of Council. [For instance, one Council member was reprimanded for having said during a committee meeting last night that International Village would be good for the community, as it would bring “real Asian food” to Ypsilanti… a comment which understandably upset those who currently operate Chinese restaurants in town. And two other Council members were called out for having abstained from the purchase agreement vote a few weeks ago, essentially allowing the relationship with International Village to move forward, in spite of public pleas to slow the process down. According to several members of the audience, this decision of theirs reflected a certain degree of “political cowardice.”] In general, though, it was a positive community conversation about what we all love about this City, and how we hope to move forward together, broadening inclusion and striving to solve our problems more creatively.

Then, at some point after the public comment, Edmonds and Brown recused themselves, and the remaining members of City Council discussed how to move forward with the investigation into the China trip, how to employ their subpoena power, and whether or not to engage an outside law firm to conduct the investigation. In the end, the members of Council voted unanimously to seek outside assistance with the investigation, and to request that all four members of the China delegation, along with the City Manager, both respond to a series of written questions concerning what they knew about the funding for the trip, and show up to be questioned in public on October 10, during a special session of Council. [The meeting is scheduled for October 10, 2017 at 7:00 p.m. in Council chambers, but I’ve got to think that they’ll end up moving it to a larger venue, given the interest.]

Here is the resolution which was passed unanimously by Council members Robb, Vogt, Bashert, Murdock and Richardson.

So, just to recap, there doesn’t seem to be any question that City ethics rules were violated. The only question seems to be when Edmonds, Brown, Ernat and Police Chief DeGiusti knew that Amy Xue Foster and her team had misled us about the true source of the funds for the trip. And, of course, this raises the question of not just how we should handle the internal situation, should it be discovered that City staff violated ethics rules, but also what this means for the International Village project going forward. As Councilwoman Lois Richardson said during the meeting, “This shatters any trust or faith I had in the developer.” Knowing that the developer had been told by the City Attorney that they couldn’t fund the trip, and then funneling the funding through a third party, Richardson said, proved to her that Amy Xue Foster was “not going to be honest with us.” And, she went on to say, that, in her opinion, this wasn’t the kind of group she thought the City should be doing business with. [It was shut down very quickly, but, at some point in the conversation, Councilman Vogt asked whether or not they should subpoena Amy Xue Foster to testify before City Council. Perhaps out of fear that it could scuttle the entire project, the idea was quickly put aside, and the decision was made to just focus on the four individuals who represented Ypsilanti in China and the CIty Manager, none of whom, they hoped, would have to be subpoenaed.]

OK, after five hours of watching Council, I too am tired… Here, however, are a few more things of interest.

PRIVATE EMAILS… I found it interesting that City Manager Darwin McClary, unrelated to the China investigation, mentioned during this session of Council that efforts were being made to ensure that all City employees, when doing City work, were using their official City email accounts. I suspect this has quite a bit to do with the fact that they’re finding it difficult to pin down exactly who knew what, and when they knew it, relative to the China trip, as the Mayor and others are known to use their personal accounts for public business. [Private emails are not covered by the Freedom of Information Act, and, hence, are unavailable to journalists and investigators.] It wasn’t brought up at the meeting, but I’m thinking that it might make sense, when these five individuals are being questioned in front of Council on the 10th, to ask if they would be willing to share their personal emails related to the China trip, and the work they did prior to the trip to secure funding. [We don’t know, for instance, if the funds secured from the Chinese consulate were requested by someone representing International Village, or if, by chance, a member of Council started the conversation after unsuccessfully seeking funding for the trip from the MEDC, SPARK, etc.]

COMMUNITY BENEFITS AGREEMENT… One good thing about going through this process with International Village is that it seems to have forced City Council to look more seriously into how we vet developers, and how we articulate what we expect from those doing business in the City of Ypsilanti. As many people stated tonight, there’s a sense that the developer we’re currently negotiating with really only cares about our community because of its proximity to Ann Arbor and the new American Center for Mobility at Willow Run, and not because they see any intrinsic value in the community itself. And there’s a sense that we should make it clear to not only this developer, but any who might follow, that we intend to demand more of them. And that’s where the Community Benefits Agreement comes in. It would enumerate what we expect from a development partner… from the hiring of local people, to the incorporation of affordable housing… covering everything from sustainable building practices, to principles of participatory design. [This, as others have pointed out, is something that’s already being done elsewhere.] While Councilman Vogt suggested that we should tread carefully, as we wouldn’t want to scare away any potential developers, others seemed less concerned about the possible downside, instead focusing on the fact that such a document would help us to identify partners willing to invest in a City with clearly articulated values, etc., avoiding many of the problem we’re now facing.

HOW MUCH MONEY ARE WE TALKING ABOUT… This investigation, according to City Attorney John Barr, would likely cost in the neighborhood of $6,000, at the end of which, depending on the findings, we may have to pay back the money spent on the trip. When asked how much that might be, Barr and McClary estimated that it would have likely been a little over $4,000 per person, for a total of $16,200 or $16,800. [We’d, of course, have to dig a bit deeper into how much was spend on food, lodging, entertainment, etc.]

FOLLOW THE MONEY… There seemed to be quiet a bit of confusion still as to the path the money might have taken. Going into the meeting, I thought it was pretty well established that the money went from the Chinese consulate in Chicago to the developer, then on to the student group at Wayne State, and ultimately to Ypsi City Hall, where the tickets were purchased, etc. From what it sounded like tonight, though, the money may never have actually passed through the hands of the student group. And, this, according to Vogt, who is an attorney by trade, is why we need a real investigation that gets beyond the hearsay and establishes a verifiable account of events, especially as it relates to custody of the funds in question.

WHO KNEW WHAT AND WHEN… As Councilman Pete Murdock said, we know for a near certainty that ethical rules were violated. The question is, to what extent were members of our City government involved. “Once the money went into the hands of the developer, it tainted the whole thing,” Murdock said. “We know that.” We just need to know who knew what, and when they knew it. And that’s why Council was unanimous in their decision to bring in an outside law firm to conduct an unbiased investigation. As Councilman Brian Robb said, there’s still a great deal we don’t know. For instance, were tickets for the September 21 trip to China already in hand when Ypsilanti Economic Development Director Beth Ernat sent an email to members of City Council on September 11, alerting them to the fact that the Wayne State University Chinese Student and Scholar Association (CSSA) had come forward with the funds necessary to send the entire Ypsilanti delegation to China? And, if so, what, if anything, would that imply?

COUNCIL HAS LOST CREDIBILITY… Several members of Council alluded to how all of this was reflecting on them. Richardson talked of a “dark cloud” hanging over Council. Bashert, discussing the “serious trust issues,” said that Council had to do everything in its power to “repair the damage.” And, that, she said, is why we needed to bring in an investigator from outside. “We do not have enough credibility right now (to do the investigation ourselves),” she said. And, judging from the mood of the audience, I’d say that she was right.

COULD IT HAVE BEEN ETHICAL… In an interesting exchange toward the end of the evening, Councilwoman Bashert asked City Attorney John Barr if there was any way at all this trip could have been ethical. Barr said that there was nothing wrong with the trip in and of itself. The trip, he said, could have been justified as “due diligence,” and it would have been fine. It would have probably been a “positive,” he said. The problem, though, according to Barr, was with “how it was financed, and how it was represented.” And, if I understood him correctly, it wasn’t even that the money had come from the Chinese consulate. It’s that the money passed through the hands of the developer, and that we, it seems, were purposefully deceived.

update: I didn’t think that it needed saying, but, based on the memes that I’ve been seeing since posting this, I think it’s probably worth reminding folks that we still live in a country where people are innocent until proven guilty. And, while I certainly have issues with the way this whole thing went down, and look forward to the findings of the investigation, I don’t feel as though it helps any of our causes to muddy the waters right now with unfounded accusations. Furthermore, I think it’s worth remembering that, whatever might have happened, we’re all still neighbors, and we’ll likely continue to be neighbors well after all of this is long forgotten. So, for what it’s worth, I’d suggest that we hold off on the meme-ification of the situation for just a little while longer, and put our efforts instead into something positive, like the drafting of the Community Benefits Agreement referenced in the post above.

Here, while we’re on the subject, is a short clip (slightly edited) from something I posted a few weeks ago about the International Village development. Given the vitriol I’m seeing today, I thought that perhaps it was worth sharing again.

…I actually like members of our Planning Department and City Council, and I sympathize with them. As Councilman Vogt pointed out a few weeks ago during one of the public meetings at the Freighthouse, it’s not easy to say “no” to a credible developer, especially when the citizens of Ypsilanti, in good faith, just voted to raise taxes on themselves to pay the debt associated with Water Street, with the understanding that our elected officials would do their best to bring in a developer as soon as possible, and terminate said millage… And I know that our overworked and under-appreciated City staff is doing their best to make something positive happen for Ypsilanti. Whether or not you agree that International Village, as explained to us by the developers, would be a positive for the community, I think you’ve got to admit that our folks have been working their asses off to find something that will see the toxins dealt with, create jobs, and increase the tax base, so that we no longer have to cut away at city services and contemplate the prospect of receivership, which would truly decimate this City that we all love…

Yes, it could very well turn out that individuals in our City government knew about the efforts on the part of Amy Xue Foster and members of her team to deceive us. And, if that turns out to be the case, I’ll be demanding accountability. Until then, though, let’s at least try to keep the possibility open that they were unaware of what was happening, and perhaps allowed their enthusiasm for the project to cloud their judgement. Granted, it’s becoming more difficult to accept that possibility, given that the individuals involved haven’t yet come out against the developer, etc, but let’s at least try to stay cordial, and keep the bigger picture in mind… which is that, whatever happens here, we’re going to have to work together to repair the damage that has been done, and move forward in a way that works for all Ypsilantians.

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So, Ypsilanti, should we repair or remove the Peninsular Dam?

As you may have heard, over the next several months, members of our City Council will be debating whether we should remove Ypsilanti’s aging Peninsular Dam, or invest approximately $640,000 in its renovation… Following, in hopes that it might help some of you to better understand the various issues at play in the “remove vs. repair” debate, is my recent conversation with Laura Rubin, the executive director of the Huron River Watershed Council.

[Seen above, the Peninsular Dam, near the intersection of Huron River Drive and LeForge Road, was initially constructed in 1867 by the now defunct Peninsular Paper Company.]

MARK: As I know the City of Ypsilanti is currently reviewing its options relative to Peninsular Dam, I was hoping that I might be able to ask you a few questions. Assuming that’s something you’re amenable to, I’ll just jump right in… Let’s start with the big picture. How many dams do we currently have along the Huron River?

LAURA: There are over 100 dams in the watershed, on the river and tributaries. There are 17 dams on the main stem of the river.

MARK: And would it be safe to say that you’re of the opinion that these dams are bad for the watershed?

LAURA: Yes. The fact is dams are bad for rivers. A river’s job is to move water and sediment. Dams prevent both of these fundamental functions. They stop and warm the water. They change the natural flow variations of the river. They foster weed growth and algae blooms. They reduce biological diversity. Having said that, dam removal decisions must be weighed against many variables, not always, or only, what is best for the river.

MARK: And why were these dams installed? Were the solely put in place for power production, or were they installed, at least in part, to help regulate the flow of the river, reduce flooding, etc?

LAURA: Many of the older dams were installed to generate power for mills and communities. There are only 4 dams left that generate power. Most of the dams have transitioned for recreational, municipal water supply, and property value enhancement purposes. None of the dams on the river manage flooding.

MARK: By “recreational purposes,” you mean that dams increase shoreline, and create lakes, where people can swim, fish, hunt, have boats, etc…

LAURA: Yes.

MARK: Am I correct that the Peninsular Dam is not one of the four that still produces power?

LAURA: That’s correct. It no longer produces power.

MARK: I may be mistaken, but, as I understand it, people these days rarely dam rivers the size of the Huron, not solely because of the damage they do to habitats, but because they aren’t economically feasible. Is that correct?

LAURA: In Michigan, we don’t have the elevation drops to make hydropower electricity economically feasible. The height or drop of the dams in our watershed tend to average around 6-16 feet. It is difficult to make enough energy to pay for the cost of generating power and to meet the Federal Energy Regulatory Control (FERC) regulations. The hydropower dams on the Huron either lose money or barely break even. Dam removal is therefore becoming the economical choice.

MARK: OK, so, from what I’ve heard, it would cost us $650,000 to repair the Peninsular Dam, and that wouldn’t include work on the power generation components… In other words, that would just give us a functioning dam, not one capable of producing electricity. Is that correct?

LAURA: Yes. And that $650,000 is an estimate from 2014, so it will likely increase. The City of Ypsilanti, as dam owner, is responsible for its maintenance and repairs. A 2014 dam inspection report projected maintenance costs of over $650,000–not including any park or powerhouse repairs nor the installation of hydropower. In 2016 the DEQ told the city to complete the work within 10 years.

MARK: And would I be correct in assuming that, given the condition of the dam, we might not be able to put this “repair or remove” decision off until 2026?

LAURA: I doubt it. The MDEQ asked for a schedule of the repairs.

MARK: I seem to recall that, not too long ago, we had people in Ypsi city government who thought that they could bring the dam back online, making it profitable as a producer of hydroelectric power…

LAURA: Yes. Over the past 10 years, the City has explored restarting hydropower at the dam. After years of discussions with potential energy companies and buyers, however, it became clear that hydropower was fiscally unwise–it just wouldn’t pay for itself.

MARK: How would the river change if the Peninsular Dam were removed? Do we know how far the water level would drop above the dam, and how much higher it would rise below, if at all?

LAURA: Usually the river goes to about ⅓ the size of the impoundment (the pond) closely following the original river bed. But, a dam feasibility study would give a better sense of where the river would return to. The City is commissioning a study to explore the feasibility of dam removal. That doesn’t commit the city to this path, but allows them to weigh the options. The study will look at the sediments behind the dam, infrastructure, and land ownership issues, and will provide a conceptual design of the river after removal, plus a range of costs for removal.

MARK: And do we know when we might have the results of this study, showing how the river will likely change with the removal of the dam?

LAURA: The City committed some funds to the study in April 2017, and the plan is to move ahead with the study this fall. They hope to have it completed over the winter.

MARK: So, am I to understand that, while the river levels would decrease above the dam, assuming we move forward with removal, they would essentially stay the same below the dam, once things had reached an equilibrium? I ask because, as you know, we’re discussing the commercialization of the City’s Water Street property, much of which sits in the 100 year floodplain. And, if the river level goes up even by a little bit in that area, I’m thinking that it could affect the development.

LAURA: Yes, the dam is operated as “run of the river” which means that it is operating on the flow of the river and not storing or regulating water flow. So the downstream flow will not change.

MARK: Have there been comparable dams removed along the Huron that might give us some indication as to what things might look like after removal?

LAURA: A good place to see a dam removal is in downtown Dexter. The City of Dexter removed the Mill Pond dam in 2008, after years of discussion. I recommend that if you are curious about dam removal, to visit downtown Dexter to see how the river and community has responded to dam removal.

MARK: Would I be right to assume that, in your opinion, the results in Dexter have been positive?

LAURA: Yes, the free-flowing river is the centerpiece of downtown revitalization efforts. The City of Dexter embraced the dam removal project by building trails, a public performance space, fishing piers, a new library, and encouraged mixed use development along the creek. The Dexter dam removal sparked a recreational, economic, and cultural revitalization.

MARK: As I understand it, most of the opposition to the idea of removing the dam here in Ypsi comes from homeowners along the river, most of whom don’t live in the City…

LAURA: To date, there hasn’t been much of a community discussion about Peninsular Dam, the cost, and the decision the City has to make, but most of the homeowners on the pond upstream of the dam are opposed to removal. Most of them don’t live in the City, but in Superior and Ypsilanti Townships.

MARK: And what’s their concern, just that it will change their views? Won’t it also increase their property as the river recedes?

LAURA: I have conversations with many of them regularly, but I wouldn’t want to try to speak for them. I think it would be good for the City to create opportunities for everyone to be heard on this issue. We want to find solutions that work for everyone and ultimately it’s up to the community to make the decision. That said, when people talk about dam removal there are some common concerns: what will the river look like, will property values decline, will there be increased activity on and around the river. What we’ve found in Dexter, and other communities where dams were removed like Diamond Dale, Big Rapids, Traverse City, is that these fears rarely come to fruition and people find that a free flowing river is a great asset to the community.

MARK: Can you speak just a bit about how we might see fish populations change as a result of the Peninsular Dam removal?

LAURA: Going from a still pond to a free-flowing river habitat would result in a reduction of carp and suckers and an increase in bass and sunfish populations. Historically, MDNR studies show a good smallmouth bass population in this stretch of the river. Additionally, with the recently completed HRWC fish habitat restoration project in Ypsi from Frog Island to Factory Street, the Peninsular Dam removal would open up the whole stretch to fish runs from Ford Lake up to the Dixboro dam.

MARK: And, going back to what we were just discussing about how most of the opposition seems to be coming from property owners outside of Ypsilanti, I think it’s worth reiterating that it’s the citizens of Ypsilanti who are responsible for the dam’s upkeep, correct? I mean, this $650,000 would have to come out of our City budget, assuming our City Council decides to keep the dam and repair it, not the County budget…

LAURA: Yes, the City owns the dam and is responsible for maintenance and safety, including liability insurance.

MARK: And the alternative, of course, would be to remove the dam altogether, which, as I understand it, may be covered by grant funding.

LAURA: It’s much easier to get funding for dam removal than for repair. That’s because the state and federal government and many foundations recognize that dams are bad for rivers. They are not good sources of energy. They are safety hazards and they are expensive. That’s why there all kinds of state and federal sources of grants for dam removal. I am not aware of any grant funding for dam maintenance or repair–those costs are all on the city.

MARK: Assuming people read this and they want to get more involved in the movement to remove the Peninsular Dam, what would you suggest?

LAURA: Councilmembers and the Mayor need to hear from City of Ypsilanti residents, businesses, and community leaders who want to see a study conducted and a measured evaluation of the future of Peninsular Paper Dam.

[For those interested in learning more about the current state of the Huron River watershed, check out episode twenty-one of The Saturday Six Pack, where I talked with Rubin at length about the history of the river, and the progress we’ve made toward restoring it over the past 50 years, after nearly a century of abuse.]

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Taking the night off to celebrate my 18th wedding anniversary

On Saturday, October 2, 1999, Linette and I were married. Here, to mark the occasion, is a little something I wrote a while back, slightly updated to reflect that yet another year has passed.

Eighteen years ago today, after seven years of living with one another in sin, I married my friend and collaborator Linette Lao. Sadly, as it took place in an age before smartphones, little evidence of this wondrous and magical event exists today. We are fortunate, however, in that we do have this one image, which I believe was taken by my old high school friend Matt, who must have been following us in another car as we pulled in to get gas on our way from the ceremony, which had taken place in a small historic chapel in Northville, to a bar in Plymouth. That’s Linette pumping gas.

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If memory serves, I’d started pumping the gas, when one of our friends, who had been following us, suggested that I step aside and let Linette do it. So Linette got out and I handed the nozzle over to her… As for the truck, it’s no longer with us. According to my father, who helped me acquire it, it was assembled by members of a high school auto shop class in rural Kentucky from the parts of several totaled vehicles. And, if you were ever earshot of it, you certainly got that sense. It was like it was at war with itself. There was always a chorus of grinding and clanking… Riding in it, I always thought, was like being inside the body of a patient rejecting multiple transplants simultaneously… But Linette, being the awesome and charitable human being she is, married me anyway.

There was no diamond ring. I’d just recently been laid off from my job at a startup company in California. And all I really had to my name was this truck built from scraps, a degree in American Studies, a pretty good work ethic, and a sense of humor that seemed to resonate reasonably well with zine readers… Things eventually fell into place for us though, as evidenced by the following two photos.

The first was taken by our friend Leisa Thompson about five years ago, when Arlo was just a baby. And the second was taken this past spring, when our friend Doug Coombe, who had been hired to take my picture outside the local all-nude strip club for an article somewhere, decided to keep shooting as Linette and the kids just happened to come walking by.

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For what it’s worth, I’m not covering their eyes here because I’m ashamed of what our kids look like. Their eyes aren’t incredibly ugly or anything. And I wouldn’t really care if they were. I just decided several years ago that, barring some kind of blogging emergency, I would’t post photos of them here. Too many bloggers, I think, cash in on the cuteness of their kids, and I didn’t want to be like that. I didn’t want to have either Clementine or Arlo look back in years to come and accuse me of exploiting them, like some kind of Mama June like character. And, more importantly, given how pervasive surveillance culture is in the world today, I thought they deserved to have at least a few years of something approaching privacy, before the floodgates opened for them. With all of that said, though, you’ll just have to trust me when I tell you that, if you were to see either of these photos without the grey bars obscuring the identities of Arlo and Clementine, you’d say, “Damn, that’s a really handsome family.”

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A lot of people that I meet, who claim to be familiar with this site, seem to think that I share a lot of personal information here. The truth in, however, I don’t. Sure, I may post the occasional photo of myself, or mention that I’d just gone somewhere or done something with my family, but, really, if you think about it, I don’t get into too much detail when it comes to things that really matter. I don’t, as a rule, talk about my relationship with Linette, my professional life, or, for the most part, the kids. Sure, I may pass along a funny quote from Arlo or Clementine here or there, along with an out-of-focus photograph, but that’s about it… Well, I’m going to make a little bit of an exception right now, seeing as how Linette and I are celebrating our 18th anniversary, and share a few thoughts.

I’m pretty damn lucky to have these three people, who you can kind of see in the photos above, in my life. I knew, when I married Linette, that we’d continue to do interesting things, and make a decent life together, but I had no idea just what was in store for us as I stood there at the front of that chapel in Northville sixteen years ago, watching her and her father walk down the aisle toward me. I guess I’d considered the possibility, in the abstract, that we might one day have kids, and what that might entail, but it’s not the kind of thing that you can really prepare for. Thankfully, it turned out that we were well suited for each other, and adequately equipped to work through whatever issues have arisen so far. It hasn’t always been easy, especially when the screaming kids were thrown into the mix, but, when it comes to the important stuff, we’ve always found a way to keep everything together and moving in the right direction.

Who would have thought that a relationship that started at Cross Street Station, the since condemned Ypsilanti dive bar across from the EMU campus, might still be going strong all these years later? The odds would have to be infinitesimal, right? Well, somehow we’ve not only made it work for almost 25 years now, if you count the years before we became “husband and wife” before the eyes of god, but we’ve done it in such a way that we’ve been able to accomplish more than either one of us ever could have alone. We’ve not only started raising two bright, funny, inquisitive kids, but we’ve also been able to launch several ventures in the process, and still find the time to remain engaged in our community, which is what we’d hoped for when, living in California, we first started talking about the possibility of moving back and putting down roots in this community where we’d first met.

And, really, what else could you want from life? We’re happy, we’ve got healthy, smart kids, and we feel as though we’re where we’re supposed to be. Yeah, maybe it would have been nice if I’d gotten that Hollywood writing job when we were living in LA, but I doubt the outcome would have been any better in the long run. When it comes to the stuff that really matters, I don’t think either of us could have asked for a better outcome. We’ve managed to create a supportive, collaborative relationship that’s allowed us to bring a few pretty decent kids into the world, and create stuff in a community that we truly care about. Everyone should be so lucky.

update: Apparently my memory wasn’t as good as I thought that it was. My friend Matt wasn’t following in another car when he took the photo of Linette pumping gas. He was actually inside the car with us. Here, with his permission, is his recounting of what happened.

“As usual our memories differ. Dan and I were riding in the back seat, there was no car following you. And it was after the bar on the way to the reception (according to the chronology of my film roll). My memory is that Linette wanted to pump the gas, not that anyone suggested she do so, but maybe I missed you or Dan suggesting it. Anyway, I took the photo because she was pumping the gas, I didn’t request her to pump gas for the sake of a photo. Too bad it wasn’t video, so we could hear all the people waiting at the intersection honking their horns at the bride at the gas pump.”

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